Many of us understandably associate hospice care with those approaching end of life. However people are often surprised to learn that as much as 80 per cent of Nanaimo Community Hospice programs are for those left behind after a loved one dies, including spouses, parents, siblings and children.
"Everyone nearing the end of their life deserves to be treated with care, compassion and respect as they navigate the physical and emotional challenges that come with that. At the same time, we also recognize the impact that losing a loved one has on family and friends, not only during palliative care, but after a death has occurred," explains Bonnie Ross, acting executive director and programs manager at Nanaimo Community Hospice.
"We all process grief differently – there's no right or wrong way. Our services are designed to meet individuals where they are in their grieving process and provide the support they need as they move through that experience."
Nanaimo Community Hospice offers free, individual grief support in a safe, comfortable and non-judgmental place, with phone, Zoom or in-person counselling. Additional programs include one-to-one peer support, peer support grief groups, educational programs, and wellness programs that include complimentary therapies such as reiki, meditation and more.
Here in Nanaimo, the organization is also seeing a growing need among children in need of grief support, with waitlists for youth of all ages to access services. Trained hospice staff and volunteers are supportive witnesses and guides as the child acquires tools to help them live with the death of a loved one. Referrals to this program come from schools, families, doctors, churches and community agencies. Teens 16 and older may refer themselves.
Why community is essential to hospice care in Nanaimo
Beyond the broad scope of programs and services provided by Nanaimo Community Hospice's dedicated staff and volunteers, the other surprise for many outside the organization is just how much it relies on community support and fundraising initiatives.
In fact, less than 5 per cent of their budget comes from government funding, Ross notes.
"We simply could not do the work we do without our community," she says. "While medical care is covered by our provincial healthcare, these vital end-of-life and grief programs are only possible because of our fundraising efforts and financial contributions of our donors.."
Especially important are regular monthly contributions, which provide consistent funding that allows staff and volunteers to plan for and prepare programs based on community need.
To learn more about Nanaimo Community Hospice programs, coming events and how you can make a difference today, visit nanaimohospice.com