GUEST COMMENT: Power to stop bullying in schools, community lies with young people
By Mary Lee Crocker
American author Edward Everett Hale once said, “I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something.”
This was the message that nearly 100 Red Cross youth bullying prevention volunteers heard throughout the inaugural Canadian Red Cross bullying prevention conference – fittingly entitled A Culture of Action.
The conference was strategically held the weekend before Wednesday’s Pink Shirt Day to remind youth that they, individually and collectively, are integral to the movement to stop bullying.
Travis Price, co-founder of Pink Shirt Day and a Red Cross Bullying Prevention officer, was the keynote speaker at the conference and his story of why he started Pink Shirt Day exemplifies the power that youth have to create a lasting change in their communities and schools.
It was in a small community in Nova Scotia that Price and his friend David Shepherd saw a young boy being bullied for wearing a pink shirt to school.
Fed up with seeing incessant bullying in their school, the two students took to social media to get as many people as they could to wear pink shirts to school the next day.
They were hoping for solidarity from a few students.
The next day, more than 700 students showed up wearing pink shirts and, from that day, the culture of their school drastically changed.
Six years later, Pink Shirt Day has spread all over the country and is expanding globally. The grass-roots origin of Pink Shirt Day reminds us of the incredible impact that a couple of students can have on stopping bullying and creating a safer school.
In fact, nobody is better equipped to be at the forefront of this change than youth themselves. Price’s story was so important for the youth to hear because it encourages them to stand up to bullying when they see it happening and reminds them that even the smallest action can have the most amazing reaction.
It is crucial for youth to be empowered to make a difference in their schools, communities and amongst their friends – spaces adults often don’t have access to.
While Pink Shirt Day might be transcending borders and expanding outside of schools, the original message remains: the power that youth have to stop bullying in their communities and schools cannot be underestimated.
Mary Lee Crocker is the provincial manager for the Red Cross Violence and Abuse Prevention program, B.C. and Yukon.